Unhappy by default

Happiness is an emotional experience expressed in a very personal way. It’s a very personal feeling that sometimes can be shared. Happiness is 50 percent genetic, what you do with the other half of the challenge depends largely on determination. Our culture tell us that money can buy happiness; the more you have, the happier you will be, but it’s not true, because happiness and wealth are both factors for achieving a good life, for instance people with a lot of money still take depression pills. But then, what make us happy? According to some researches, being educated, being married, and being religious, helps people to be happier; however I can never be happy by being married, or being religious, having good friends, understanding family and a motivator in my life, are the only things that make me happy.

While some people think that obtaining happiness is something personal, in my opinion you can never be successful in your life until you share your happiness with your friends. To be honest, I had a few friends but without them life has no meaning for me, I used to be alone except the moment that I’m happy, actually I can’t taste gladness without sharing it with my friends.
On the other hand a close and understanding family sometimes is the greatest emotional fact that you can rely on without any doubt that you would lose their support, and this can make you happy and successful in your life. One thing that protects this happiness which is gained from your family is that, you neither get mad of your family nor they do, always you know that they love you, and this pure love is enough to make you happy.

In addition to the things mentions, there is a time that you find out you’re alone and there is no one to help you in your life, maybe this time you think that you can never be happy in your life again, but that’s the rule of life, all good things must come to an end, now it’s your time to go on and make yourself happy, you need to find a goal which would make you busy not to think about anything unpleasant and that’s enough to be happy. There are moments in my life which I’m so depress, and as I’m so selfish, it’s a little hard for me to seek happiness and get help from others, therefore I make myself busy with something, and that makes sad emotions away from me.

In brief you can find happiness everywhere every time, a beautiful sunshine, the color of a flower, the taste of food, the smell of coffee, a good song, a good shower, a kiss. How to be happy? It’s all about attitude, perspective and choices. And be sure that happiness is the most powerful tool to be prosperous in your life.