Unhappy by default

Happiness is an emotional experience expressed in a very personal way. It’s a very personal feeling that sometimes can be shared. Happiness is 50 percent genetic, what you do with the other half of the challenge depends largely on determination. Our culture tell us that money can buy happiness; the more you have, the happier you will be, but it’s not true, because happiness and wealth are both factors for achieving a good life, for instance people with a lot of money still take depression pills. But then, what make us happy? According to some researches, being educated, being married, and being religious, helps people to be happier; however I can never be happy by being married, or being religious, having good friends, understanding family and a motivator in my life, are the only things that make me happy.

While some people think that obtaining happiness is something personal, in my opinion you can never be successful in your life until you share your happiness with your friends. To be honest, I had a few friends but without them life has no meaning for me, I used to be alone except the moment that I’m happy, actually I can’t taste gladness without sharing it with my friends.
On the other hand a close and understanding family sometimes is the greatest emotional fact that you can rely on without any doubt that you would lose their support, and this can make you happy and successful in your life. One thing that protects this happiness which is gained from your family is that, you neither get mad of your family nor they do, always you know that they love you, and this pure love is enough to make you happy.

In addition to the things mentions, there is a time that you find out you’re alone and there is no one to help you in your life, maybe this time you think that you can never be happy in your life again, but that’s the rule of life, all good things must come to an end, now it’s your time to go on and make yourself happy, you need to find a goal which would make you busy not to think about anything unpleasant and that’s enough to be happy. There are moments in my life which I’m so depress, and as I’m so selfish, it’s a little hard for me to seek happiness and get help from others, therefore I make myself busy with something, and that makes sad emotions away from me.

In brief you can find happiness everywhere every time, a beautiful sunshine, the color of a flower, the taste of food, the smell of coffee, a good song, a good shower, a kiss. How to be happy? It’s all about attitude, perspective and choices. And be sure that happiness is the most powerful tool to be prosperous in your life.

Motivator

There’s no one who can live without any purpose in their life, when you lose your aims there would be no reason to breath, whenever you find yourself, you would seek for ambitions in your life, notwithstanding that there’s nothing at the end; but having a goal in your life is the only reason to carry on living. Loving someone, wanting a better life, fearing future and the path that we’re walking, would help us to go ahead.

Love, some people would do anything for a simple deep affection, they even can become a monster, and love gives them such a power that they can do anything to approach their goal. It was a time that I gave my heart to someone, someone who was my dream, my life, my precious; in return it was just a smile, simply I lost my heart, I think it was the first time in my life that it was not just a loss, even it was so hard for me but It made me stronger, I found out something, Love is not my motivator; whenever I’m in love, my life doesn’t change in a positive way anymore, I lose the path, and totally change to a dumb fuck.

I always wanted a better life, I mean everybody want a better life it’s not just me; why we want to increase the quality of our life is still another question, but it’s a straight and a clear way to go on; I know that I’m at my wit’s end, and the only thing that I need is a nifty plan, I already have one, but really stuck in a bad situation, two month ago I thought I would give it a go, but now I really know that it’s the only way to make a change in my life; therefore I’m going to put my mind to it, till I can open up new possibilities.

Sometimes future is so unseen for me and fearing of it makes me dream my life away; most people would come up with a new strategy when they feel that their future is in an unsafe situation, but I’m my own worst enemy, I would ruin everything when I am not sure about something.

All I wanted to say is that I’m trying to give a meaning to my life; I know it’s not possible unless I do something serious and I can’t count on any one, but I really need a motivator, I know I’ve one but it’s so hard to approach and in this damn country you never can rely on anything and have a real plan for your life.